Why Are Modern Relationships So Fragile?

We want to share this article with you, which we think may help you figure out why this is happening.

10. We are not ready

Often we are not ready to commit, sacrifice, and love unconditionally. We don’t want to wait, we need to have everything at once.

We don’t allow our feelings to grow, often putting a “time limit” on what we think we should feel and when.

9. We confuse love with other feelings

Many times, we want to find someone to be with us at the movies or a nightclub, not someone who can understand and support us in a moment of deep sadness.

We don’t like to lead a boring life and therefore we look for a happy partner who can turn our life into an adventure.

But we are not always ready for changes, which inevitably happen after a certain period of mutual and romantic affection.

8. We get stuck in a rut.

After a while, we don’t have time or space for love, because we are too busy chasing material benefits.

7. We are waiting for an immediate result

When we fall in love, we already want our relationships to mature. However, that maturity, as well as mutual understanding, can only come after spending years together.

Most of the people nowadays think that there is nothing in this life that is worth their time and patience, even love.

6. We prefer to waste our strength

Many of us would probably rather spend an hour with a hundred different people than a day with just one. Today there is an opinion that it is much better to meet people than to meet them.

We are greedy and want everything at once. We start relationships and end them as soon as we find a “better” variant.

We do not give the best to a person, but we want it to be perfect. We date a lot of people, but we hardly give anyone a chance.

5. We become dependent on technology

Technology has brought us together. We are so close that sometimes it seems difficult to breathe. In many cases, text messages, voice messages, chats, and video calls have replaced face-to-face communication.

We no longer need to spend time together. We already know a lot about each other. We have nothing to talk about.

4. We cannot stay in one place for long.

We think that we are not made for relationships, and even the idea of ​​settling down scares us. We no longer dedicate our lives to just one person and avoid anything that is permanent.

3. We ‘liberate ourselves sexually’.

Our generation has separated sex from love. People first have sex and then decide if they want to be together.

Today, sex outside of marriage is normal, and things like “open relationships,” “friends with benefits,” and “one-night stands” have become a part of modern life.

2. We rely on logic too often.

Few of the younger generations can love with all their hearts and overcome the difficulties linked to time and distance.

1. We are afraid of too many things

We are afraid of new relationships, disappointments, emotional wounds, and broken hearts, so we don’t allow people into our lives.

We build walls around ourselves and sometimes they are too thick and high to allow us to go out and see life for what it is.

Based on materials from mensxp